SQL*LOADER question

Hi All,

  I have two (2) Windows 2000 (w2k) machines, one running Oracle 8i at a   remote site (WAN connection) and another on my desk running the Oracle

  client software(no database). Can I, and if so how, use sqlldr on my      
  desktop PC to load data into the remote database. The data file to be     
  loaded and the control file are on my desktop. I do not want to use       
  netmeeting or PC anywhere type programs which I know I can use.           
 Thanks                                                                     
 Rick